People talk about
it, portray it in the media and glorify it as an embracing and
unifying force. Yes... love. Love me here, love me there, and love me
everywhere. With all of this praising of love, one would think the
world would be a better place, but as it turns out, it's quite the
contrary. The world has never resembled a cesspool as much as now. It
has become a melting pot of cuntism and dickreaucracy. Even back in
the day, when domestic violence was considered a natural activity in
a household, the world wasn't this bad. You may sit there and think
that life and society isn't too bad where you live, but there are
many atrocious things taking place as you read this that isn't
covered by any media. The fact that you have it better is because
somewhere else someone is paying the price.
So what exactly did
happen? Where is the pink factor? Where are the heart-shaped nipples
and balls? It all sounds and looks contradictory to our modern belief
in the omnipotence of love. Are we all really hypocritical twats? The
short answer, not really. People do aspire to fall in love. But we've
simply managed to redefine the concept and idea of love...
We now live in a
consumer oriented society and our needs are constantly forced to
change. The media makes us believe that we need to change what we
have in order to get something better. Cars, houses, clothes,
televisions, mobile phones. It all needs to be upgraded to something
superior. Even with love, we now see partner-cycling. People only
love as long as it suits their needs. It's not uncommon nowadays to
have been married 3-4 times. How is that even possible? Is it
possible that one person can have THAT poor judgement and hasn't
learned from previous experiences? No, obviously it is something
else. We simply love being in love. We want to feel and live the love
that we see on the silver screen. We want to hold hands, go out for
romantic dinners and have those amazing moments that we see rendered
in slow motion in the movies. Love isn't this and never was. The
whole love-at-first-sight isn't anything more than a superficial
infatuation. Of course, this doesn't mean to grow into something
more. That leaves the question, what is love then, if it isn't
balls-at-first-sight?
I'm sure that most
have heard the term “love is like a garden”. You'll likely nod
and say to yourself that the saying is true. However, there is more
to it. See, a garden wasn't always just a garden. It started out as
something. It didn't just materialize. Likely it started out as dead
and infertile soil. But with time and dedication it grew into a
beautiful garden and so. By now you realise what I'm getting at. Love
is a process and it's ongoing. It doesn't come from the big bang
following the balls-at-first-sight. We find love because we make a
conscious decision of making time and adapting to the potential
candidate. This is what it ultimately is, and you may be sitting
there shaking your head, and if that is the case, then balls to you.
Balls to anyone who has bought into the modern concept of love. Balls
to “Oh my god, we said the same thing at the same time, she's
totally my soul mate.”. Balls to those who cycle partners thinking
they're procuring true love. Love is logical and level-headed.
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